weight

I've just weighed myself and my actual weight is 246.2lbs. I figure if I'm going to this then I better be accurate with my readings

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I'm back!!

It's been a couple of years now since I last blogged and I'm back to tell you that I'm in the worst shape ever... yay! Lol. So I now weigh 250lbs :-( piled on masses of weight again. I've been seeing a psychiatrist about my 'depression' and potential bipolar disorder, been on all sorts of different meds to 'correct my imbalance' however none of them have helped at all, turns out my imbalance is innate, it's just me. So I've come off all the meds and I'm trying to take stock of my life.

Truth is I've really missed you guys <3 you would always be there to support me when the rest of the world couldn't give a shit. I think it's took me so long to come back because I felt like an absolute failure. After I spouted all that "I'm going to change, eat healthily, get better" blah blah blah and then I just didn't. I couldn't bring myself to come back and tell you I'd failed... again.

Anyway I feel like this is a really good time to focus on me, to address the binging and start a fresh. 250Lbs is so disgusting but it's a good round number to start with. I feel like myself again now after quitting the medication about a month ago, back to my dysfunctional self!! Haha!

I hope everyone is well, I'll try my best to catch up on everybody's blogs and see how you guys are doing

Loadsa love

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Hopeful

So today was my uncles funeral. I was very sad when I woke up and during the service could not stop crying however as soon as it was over I felt fine. It's like I got closure on the whole thing and could just get on with normal life. I almost feel guilty for not being upset any more like so many of my relatives but I just don't. I've started to see things objectively and I'm now concentrating on what I can learn from his early death. You see my uncle was obese, morbidly obese I reckon, and his life was massively affected by this. He had to have heart bi-passes and he suffered with diabetes. He died because his heart just lost the battle or perhaps gave up as it was clearly fighting a battle it knew it couldn't win. My uncle did nothing for his health, you'd think diabetes would be enough of a warning to change your ways but not for him, he continued eating and drinking all the crap artery clogging stuff because he enjoyed his lifestyle. He was very sociable and enjoyed drinking with his friends and he simply did not want to give this life up even though he was literally killing himself.

This will not happen to me.
I love food, I binge on it for gods sake but it wont kill me.
I wont let it.
This is the wake up call I have needed for a very long time.

I'm starting my life over tomorrow. I'm going to get up at a decent time not lay in bed till noon. I'm going to regularly partake in some form of exercise and not be a lazy pig any more. I'm going to stop pissing around with all the BAD food like chocolate, crisps (chips to my american friends) and greasy take-aways and substitute healthy foods like fruit, veg and fresh meat. I'm quite literally going to flip everything on its head because every aspect of my life can do with some improvement. If I feel myself slipping back to old habits I will remind myself of my uncle, go visit his grave, remember his eating habits and where they got him. I cant piss about any more. The time is now. I don't want to be six feet under at an early age because food got the better of me, NO WAY. Its time to grow up, stop acting like a child and sort my life out!

Wow, I know many of you have probably read this kind of thing over and over and its never come to anything, heavens I've even pledged this sort of thing before. However, something's different this time. Normally when I say this kind of thing I don't actually believe it myself, I know its just words, but this time I actually mean it. I want to like myself and this is the way to achieve that. Today I have lived the life of somebody who lived the life I now live (that was a mouthful!). I've seen the consequence of my actions. Continuing down this road could potentially mean I'm halfway through my life. No way. I wont let that happen.

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Feeling blue is putting it mildly

I hate that my uncle is dead.
I hate that I will never see him again.
I hate that food is my only comfort for when I feel like shit.
I hate that I'm fat.
I hate that I'm too weak to conquer it.
I hate that I'm complaining about it.
Most of all I hate having so much hatred towards so many things

Re-run

Thanks guys for all the support on my last post, its really encouraging to know you're all behind me. However, I'm very sad and disappointed to tell you that yesterday was a fail :(

I wish I could just hide away from everyone until I've lost all this weight and come out skinny. Yesterday I was struggling with the fast but I was adamant that I was going to stick it out. Then my friend came round around at lunch time and didn't leave till about 11.30pm (she has a habit of doing that). I'd told her I'd just had an early lunch so that was fine but because she stayed so long she started hassling me about eating dinner. Embarrassingly she actually heard my tummy rumbling too! I tried to make out that I wasn't feeling well and the noises were stomach cramps but she didn't believe me. She just carried on and on and on and I cracked. I couldn't deal with the persistent questioning.

I love my friend I really do but sometimes I feel that she gets some sort of comfort from me being her FAT friend. She's about 5'7" and weighs somewhere in the 130s. She's said many a time that she's not happy with her weight and she's actually had liposuction on her legs a few years back so she obviously has her own issues. Even when I've tried the healthy eating thing she's sabotaged my efforts by bringing McDonalds round to my house. I wish you can tell people in the real world that you're doing a water fast and they wouldn't look at you like you've just decided to commit suicide! I've done a lot of research on water fasts and they are even doctor recommended in some cases. I'm not an idiot, I know my body and it's capabilities.

So new plan of action. I'm starting again today and this time I'm going to plan it out. I'm going to make sure I make myself unavailable to anyone around mealtimes. If my friend just shows up unannounced and its close to a mealtime then I'll ignore her. When she texts I'll say I'm out with a friend having lunch! Even if she camps outside till I get back (believe me she's done this on more than one occasion) then I'll simply leave through my back door and walk around to the front. If she brings me food I'll grow some balls and tell her NO! I don't want that food, I'm eating healthy food now or something like that. I wont be held captive in this horrible blubber by her. Oh and I'll kick her out too if it gets too late, I'm going to need early nights whilst fasting, yesterday my energy was crazy low and I struggled just walking to town. 

So welcome to day one... again!

Keep safe everybody xxxxxx

219.8

Yay! I have so much to say...

Firstly I'm so happy that I've finally met my first goal of 220! It gives you such a boost to meet a target that you've set yourself doesn't it :) Plus this now means I've lost my 1st 10 pounds as well which is obviously the first of many but its still awesome!

Secondly thanks to the inspirational blog of crashxDburn I've decided that I'm going to start my very own water fast today. I started yesterday by easing myself into it with a juice fast and I still had my caffeinated drinks too but today will be all water. I was surprised by how easily I managed it yesterday so I'm hoping this will continue. I'm not sure how long I want to fast for but I feel it will be beneficial to at least continue through till my uncles funeral on Thursday, detox my body in preparation for how hard that day will be.

I went to a wedding do last night and I was so proud of myself. They had a buffet set out that spanned the distance of about six tables, it was quite a spread I tell you. There was chicken curry, rice, sausage rolls, potato wedges, crisps, sandwiches, roast potatoes, you name it they had it and I didn't eat any of it, not a thing :) It smelled delicious and everyone at my table had platefuls, they kept asking me over and over if I wanted anything but I just kept my story that I'd had a big dinner before I came out. I know its bad to say but I felt kind of superior and very smug sitting there watching them stuff their faces knowing that I'm shrinking as they're getting bigger. I feel so strong at the minute, I didn't even know I had it in me!

Feeling hopeful that I will feel the health benefits from this fast as I've abused my body recently with a lot a crap food and drink. I'm going to quite the ciggs too if I can whilst doing this, I want to be pure, just water, nothing else (apart from toothpaste and mouthwash!)

I hope everyones ok xxxxxx

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Its funny how so many of us have real concern over others and their potentially destructive behaviours yet deal ourselves a completely different set of rules and boundaries... Are we caring individuals (yes) who knowingly carry out self destructive behaviours or are we simply blinded to the risks we take ourselves. Maybe we deem ourselves less important or less valuable than others? I dont know. Its late and I'm ranting... again! I cant even remember the point of this post, whoops! I need sleep.

Night night all xxx